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prepared for anything. Even to the father's rebuke - I thought -
            but  he  told  me  with  bursting  joy  that  all  his  dreams  are  a
            grandchild, and since he is old enough, he will retire to enjoy all
            the joys that come with it. Well, I thought, I got over that, but
            where and how are we going to live. He said that one room in
            their apartment - the girls' room - was perfect for this.
            My  friend  was  an  architect,  and  I  had  already  worked  at  the
            Technical University of Budapest, so I thought that a new wing
            of  the  building  could  be  built  attached  to  the  room,  you  just
            have to agree with the other co-residents. It took a bit of a polite
            approach,  but  the  agreement  was  reached,  the  plan  was
            completed, and we took out all the loans that were available at
            the time, and I gave up on the new car.
            We got married on August 3, 1972. The bricklayer came here
            and there, until I got tired of his absence and started organizing
                                             the work myself, and then
                                             he quickly became jealous
                                             and  more  efficient.  He
                                             probably   needed    the
                                             money too.
                                             I  worked  full-time  at  the
                                             Language  Institute  of  the
                                             Technical  University.  I
                                             liked the job and really fell
                                             in  love  with  the  work
                                             there.  The  English  degree
                                             was  revealing  at  the  time,
                                             and  surely  resulted  in  my
                                             being  classified  as  a
            "politically  inappropriate  person".  At  the  conferences  of  the
            language  institute,  the  course  organization  sounded  like  a
            Russian language schedule and a foreign language schedule. I
            kept repeating that Russian was also a foreign language to me.
            In  English,  I  put  together  a  new  exam  schedule  and  exam
            material upon request, and someone in higher position made a



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